Happy Valentine’s Day!


happy-valentines-day-2013Today is a special day for lovers full of many expectations. However let me remind you, it’s not the gifts you will receive, the dinner you will be taken or the vacation you will take that will show you the love you so long for.

It’s the everyday small acts of love that will do it best, it’s when your partner tells you something and you listen keenly and do something about it.

It’s the phone calls you make just to find out how they are doing at work or home or the sms that makes them know you are on their mind.

Love in marriage can’t be expressed in an event but it’s in the small things that we do for each other. The things we do that makes ndoa last are so small it’s unbelievable, yet they are the same ones that makes mapenzi turn to dislike and resentment.

So my dears show love today and always … love is not an event. Mapenzi na Ndoa wishes you a happy valentine’s day!



Time to workout the PC for better performance … for men


I’m a big believer in foreplay, but enough is enough. It’s time to get started. In this article you are going to learn the first set of simple exercises that will set the stage for taking control of your sexuality the way you have always imagined. Mastering them is the crucial first step on the path to a lifetime of pleasure and power as a multi-orgasmic male. Please take the exercises very seriously. It is important to take your time, follow my instructions carefully, and try to be very thorough. This set of exercises is most easily accomplished on your own.

pc-muscle-kegel-diagramIf you have a partner who is waiting to work with you, let her know you’ll be ready for her soon. You just need to prepare a few things. This should heighten her anticipation and make her all the more enthusiastic when it’s time for her to join in.

So . . . let the game begin. Enjoy yourself! And don’t forget: PC power is ultimate power. Read the rest of this entry

A killer in sexual satisfaction : Premature ejaculation



This premature ejaculation has been so hyped that even young men are taking sexual virtuoso drugs to maintain the erection. However it’s sad because the more they use the drugs the harder it becomes to last longer & longer … which if he is able to last longer he enjoys more and definitely the woman gets a real good treat.

What exactly is premature ejaculation?

It is when ejaculation occurs prior to when a man wishes, or too quickly during intercourse to satisfy his woman. When this happens the man tends to quickly lose a usable erection for the woman to even know exactly what happened.

What are the causes of premature ejaculation?

It is probably “natural” for healthy males to ejaculate quickly. Lasting longer serves no genetic function that we know of. Lasting is a learned behavior, like learning to dance. It can prolong and intensify pleasure for a man. Also, many women like to experience orgasm – or have been socially conditioned to enjoy orgasm – when the erect penis is inside them. To reach orgasm this way often requires periods of more or less continuous stimulation by the penis. Read the rest of this entry

Intimacy at its best

In God's beautiful plan for man and woman, romantic intimacy and physical intimacy come to full expression together only within the protective bond of marriage.

In God’s beautiful plan for man and woman, romantic intimacy and physical intimacy come to full expression together only within the protective bond of marriage.

Intimacy – The desire we have for someone to know and love us for who we are. This is a desire put inside us by God Himself, and it can only be ultimately and completely filled by Him. But here on earth, God has graciously blessed us with the experience of true intimacy with others as well. We call them soul mates or best friends.

True intimacy is one of the qualities of a great marriage, and we ideally hope to achieve it with our spouses. Unfortunately, non-marital sex has become a cheap imitation of true intimacy in our culture. It can make us feel close even when we hardly know each other.

Levels of Intimacy – Roger Hillerstorm

Level One: Lowest Level

The lowest level is where we share what Hillerstrom calls superficial reports or factual statements like: Read the rest of this entry

Did I marry the right person?


couple_living_together1During one of my seminars some time back, a woman asked me a question. She said, “How do I know if I married the right person?”

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, “It depends. Is that your husband?”

In all seriousness, how do you know?

Here’s the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Read the rest of this entry

Sex is like glue


Wilson, Barbara

Sex is like super human glue. God never intended for humans to have multiple sexual partners. Instead He designed and created our bodies, souls, minds and spirits to be sexually bonded for life with one partner in marriage. “But what’s the big deal?” you may be asking, “It’s only sex. How doesYour past sexula experience breaking one relationship and moving on to another have anything to do with my mind, body, soul or spirit?” And why is it so important to save sex for marriage?

God says in His Word that when we engage in the intimate act of sexual relations with someone, we become one with them, a complete, all-encompassing union in our minds, souls and spirits as well as our bodies. So what happens when we become one with multiple partners? Physically, our body, affection and attention may move on to someone new after a breakup, but what about our souls, spirits and minds? Are they able to put the past behind so easily? Can every part of me move into the next relationship brand new without residue attached from the previous ones? If there is sexual residue, what does it consist of? How does it impact me now or in future relationships? Great questions. Read the rest of this entry

Thank you honey!


thankyouLove the man you’re with. Want the man you have. Treat him like he IS the man you want, regardless of how you feel. At one time, he WAS the man of your dreams, but life has a way of ripping the rose colored glasses off one’s eyes especially when financial woes come on the scene. Suddenly, all those cute mannerisms that endeared you to your man, grate on your nerves to no end. This month I want you to put those rose colored glasses back on and stop seeing the quirky habits that make you nuts. Instead, thank him.

Thank your husband for going to work, for coming home each evening, for providing for you and the kids. I understand that you may be struggling financially but if he is working, then THANK HIM. I once heard a wife say in a group, “Well, HER husband is RICH!” One does not need to be a rocket scientist to know that comment cut to the core of her husband’s soul. Read the rest of this entry