If a man wants you …

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This advice was passed along to me from a counselor; it was great to hear so I wanted to share it.

  • If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
  • Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
  • Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
  • Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
  • If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
  • Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
  • Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
  • The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

    Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you any differently?

  • Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
  • Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
  • If something bothers you, speak up.
  • Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

    You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

  • Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
  • He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
  • Never let a man define who you are.
  • Never borrow someone else’s man.
  • Oh Lord!  If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
  • A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.

By: Salma Rumman  

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