No, not tonight dear I have a headache…

This is the oldest excuse in the book and women know how to give it. Sex actually Reduces Pain say that again! am sure any man wants me to say it so that his wife can hear.

As the hormone oxytocin surges, endorphins increase, and pain declines. That is why your headache, arthritis pain, or PMS symptoms seem to  improve after sex, you can thank those higher oxytocin levels. Sex is a soother …

The oxytocin hormon is called the love hormone, its the one that makes us feel love to our spouses and even to the children when breast feeding. that is why the more its released the more it sothes you and you feel more loving and relaxed.
The excuse of my dear i have a head ache …weeee sex should just cure it so let the medicine be sex and not lack of it and you will feel much much better.

It also improves Intimacy, so avoid the head ache issue … and you will reap big time

Having sex and orgasms increases levels of the hormone oxytocin, the so-called love hormone, which helps us bond and build “Oxytocin allows us to feel the urge to nurture and to bond,” and this is very good for your marriage, that is why the more sex you have the less augments you will have with your spouse … its a love hormone therefore …use it to your advantage …and enjoy the benefits.

Higher oxytocin has also been linked with a feeling of generosity. So if you’re feeling suddenly more generous toward your partner than usual, credit the love hormone.

We all want to feel the warmth that comes from intimacy and the joy that comes from the hugs, caress, kiss and sweet things that you do to each other …this comes from having sex more often therefore enjoy sex and grow your oxytocin … bila sex it stops growing and then issues come into your marriage.