Love yourself You can be pretty but still unattractive if you don’t start to love yourself. Nobody will care how shiny and thick your hair is, for example, if you keep complaining about your waist size. Confidence is a powerful attractant, so you need to learn to be confident.
Be distinctly you. Be yourself. If you ever observe people at a party or any social gathering, you’ll always see the majority of guys drawn to women with unique (but not intimidating) personalities. It’s never a plain Jane, following the herd, to whom they all gravitate, is it? So ask yourself, is there anything you could improve about your personality or who you are to make yourself more interesting and fun to talk to?
Be healthy. Eyes take kindly to a woman who takes care of herself, and that means finding a happy medium for your weight, eating well, getting enough sleep and exercising. Plus, being healthy makes you more energetic, better for your mental health as well as adding to your confidence–who can resist that?
Take care of your skin. Blemishes (especially on your face) can be very distracting. Wear sunblock daily to prevent future wrinkles and sunspots. Wash your face regularly, and apply makeup to accentuate your complexion.
Be hygienic. Maintain yourself so that you always smell and look fresh and lovely. Take showers, brush your teeth after every meal, wear clean clothes, etc.
Keep your hair healthy and styled. They say that the hair is the portrait of the face, so it has to look great. Greasy or damaged hair is always unattractive. Always comb and brush your hair very well, every day. Get a haircut or style that fits your facial shape. Cutting yourself bangs can also make you appear attractive.
Have style. Make sure you look your best no matter what. Even if you’re wearing sweat pants, dab a little lip gloss on and wear gold hoop earrings or a bracelet. For special occasions, Go for funky strappy high heeled sandals, a flowy blouse and skinny jeans.
Be nice. A rude person turns ugly in the eyes of whoever who sees her, but a nice person turns into a prettier person in the eyes of everyone who sees her. Try to be nice to everyone, but be ready to defend yourself against any rude attitudes, since letting people walk all over you is not very attractive, now is it?
Smile. Don’t walk around all the time with a frown or even a neutral expression on your face. Even a little smile will make you more attractive. What else could be more inviting and approachable? All in all, be readable. You don’t have to be predictable, but for goodness sake, do not keep a poker face when it comes to emotions. Guys do not like to feel unsure. As bad as it is asking for directions, asking a woman how she feels can be dangerous! This is why so many guys won’t do it if they can’t already tell if a girl is into them or not. Don’t smile too much though. Most guys these days fall for mysterious women. So smiling when men aren’t expecting it can make them stammer.
Be willing to participate. Whether it’s talking, eating, gaming, dancing, or snorkeling, it’s only polite to join in. A person who just sits there watching might as well be wearing a flashing neon sign that says “I’m a boring person who doesn’t like fun!” However, this does NOT mean you should join in drinking or partying if you’re not into those things. To get involved, walk kindly up to them and ask, “Do you mind if I join you?” If they say yes, have fun! If they say no, that usually indicates that they are mean and not very ‘open’. Try to avoid people who don’t even notice you or are excessively mean to you for no reason. If they say no, try to find some other people to try to be friends with.
Be capable of carrying on a conversation. You don’t necessarily have to have something in common with a guy for him to take interest in you but if he tries to talk to you but you just stand there, he’s going to move on. A good conversation starter is to ask his opinion about something superficial, such as whether INXS picked the right guy or if the nice weather will hold out through the weekend. Important: avoid asking for input about your looks, such as your outfit or your hair. Keep the conversation light. Above all, don’t put yourself down, it’s a huge turnoff.
Don’t make yourself seem overly available
Have your own principles. Be certain in certain aspects so that your social life won’t be a mess.
Treat yourself. Get a manicure and pedicure, a massage, or a facial. You don’t have to do it every week, but don’t deprive yourself.